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Tuesday, August 03, 2004

LOVE

Life is e process of finding love; every person will need 2 find 4 ppl in their life.

1st person is u,
2nd person is e 1 u love most,
3rd person is e 1 who loves u most,
n e 4th is e 1 u spend e rest of ur life wif.

In life, firstly u will meet e 1 u love most, n learn hw love feels. Becoz u noe hw love feels, so u can find e person who loves u most. When u hav experienced e feeling of loving others n being loved, u will then noe wad is it tt u need most.Then u will find e person who is most suitable 4 u, 2 be able 2 spend e rest of ur life wif.

Sadly, in real life, these 3 ppl r usually nt e same person.E 1 u love most doesn't love u. E 1, who loves u most, is nv e 1 u love most. N e 1 u spend ur life wif, is nv e 1 u love most or e 1 who love u most.He is just e person who happens 2 be at e right place at e right time.

Which person r u in other ppl's life? No person will purposely hav a change of heart. At e pt in time when she loves u, she really loves u. Bt when she doesn't love u anymore, she really doesn't love u anymore. When she loves u, she can't pretend tt she doesn't. Same goes, when she loves u no more, there's no way she can pretend she loves u.

When a person doesn't love u n wants 2 leave u. U must ask urself if u still love her, If u also don't love her anymore, do not keep her just 2 save ur pride. If u still love her, u should wish her happiness, hope tt she will b wif e 1 she loves most, n nt stop her frm it. If you stop her frm finding true happiness wif e 1 she loves, it shows tt u already don't love her, n if u don't love her, wad rights do u hav 2 blame her 4 a change of heart?

Love is nt possession, If u like e moon, u can't just take it down n put it in ur basin, Bt e moonlight still shines upon u. In other words, when u love a person, u can use another method of possessing e person. Let him become a permanent memory in ur life. If u really love a person, u must love her 4 wad she is. Love her 4 her gd pts, n e bad, u can't wish 4 her 2 become like wad u like her 2 be just becoz u love her. If she can't change 2 become wad u like her 2 be, u don't love her anymore.

When u really love a person, u cannot find a reason why u love her, u only know tt no matter when n where, gd or bad mood, u will wish 2 hav this person be wif u. Real love is when 2 ppl can go through e toughest problems w/o asking 4 promises or listing criterias. In a relationship, u hav 2 put in effort n give in at times, not always be on e receiving end. Being away frm each other is a type of test, If e relationship isn't strong, then u can only admit defeat. Real love will never become hate.

When 2 ppl r in love, They love 2 ask each other 2 swear, 2 make promises. Why do they ask each other 2 swear n promise? Becoz they don't trust each other, they don't trust their lover. These swear n promises r useless; Till e sky falls, till e ocean dry, my love 4 u will nv change! We all know tt e sky will nv fall; e ocean will nv dry, Even if it does happen, r we still alive by then?Be careful when making promises; don't make promises that u cannot keep. In a relationship, wad u say is 1 thing, bt wad u do is another; e 1 saying, doesn't believe; e one listening, also doesn't believe.Which person hav u found so far?

In e world so big, which person have u found? n who has found u?

gt tis from nad's blog..so meaningful...

hold my hands tight and we will make it through...